3. Set company boundaries for yourself ahead of time.

3. Set company boundaries for yourself ahead of time.

I’ve attended large, co-ed events where I’m mostly thinking about going out in my lingerie and making down with strangers. At smaller events for ladies and femmes where I’m sure one other attendees, I’m more comfortable participating in impact play, but we still don’t like getting completely nude. It took time and energy to discover the things I was more comfortable with, and I also did this by going gradually and checking in with my emotions. The very first time I decided to go to a club had been entirely to see just what it was like and also to get more comfortable with the room. Continue reading “3. Set company boundaries for yourself ahead of time.”